Ok, let’s come clean on this matter of my samburu moran once
and for all. While we want to ferry the old saying that love is blind around, a
scenario in which an old white lady who can afford a holiday in the Kenyan
coast meets and marries a young Samburu Moran who has travelled the long
distance to the coat to look for a better life can by no means be described as
a love thing gone to marriage. What surprises me is that all these women seem
to have one thing in common; they cannot have children. While we may want to
imagine that it is because the white women are already past the child bearing
age, let’s not forget that some of them came here in their early 30s.
And why is it that they appear to tolerate not the idea of
the Samburu Morans marrying a second wife? I mean, polygamy among the Kenyan
communities especially Maasai and Samburu is something more like a norm. I
thought if you love someone you accept them the way they are?
I am very glad about the one moran who is so sincere about
the entire issue; he says he married a white lady 30 years older than him because
he thought the woman would give him a good life. But this leads me to ask this
one question; do these young energetic Kenyan men consider the gravity of the
matter of marriage? Do they for one second pause to think about the agony that
they cause their parents? Or is it that the mothers and fathers of the Samburu
Morans also want their sons to get rich no matter what they do to achieve that?
Tell me Kenyans, these guys featured in My Samburu Moran on
Citizen TV, are they any different from the coastal girls that were on the news
headlines a few days ago with the dog saga? Kwani Kenya kuna shida gani?
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